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28 April, 2008

Press Release for Saltnote Stageworks Festival

Filed under: CMU news, Music — feelingelephants @ 10:52 am

Shameless self promotion, but I am really exited about this festival, so here goes:

PS: I am playing the 3rd Genii in The Magic Flute, and expect to be in the choruses for Carmina Burana, Pagliacci coro, Ragtime, Sour Angelica and Beethoven’s Choral Fantasy.

Come watch!

Huge Month-Long Music Festival Coming to Maryland

Stageworks Festival is new and it’s exciting!

The PROGRAM is the largest Young Artist Festival in North America, with over 100 participants from the United States, Canada, Mexico, Europe and Asia uniting to present 17 consecutive evenings of performances in opera (Carmina Burana, The Magic Flute, Pagliacci & Suor Angelica), musical theater (Ragtime), jazz (with highlights from Porgy and Bess), Big Band, chamber works (Mostly Mozart), cabaret and more! All this with Grammy-Award winning conductors, Broadway directors, a music director from LA Opera, faculty from The Metropolitan Opera, La Scala, Kennedy Center, NYC Opera and leading universities and conservatories throughout the world, and world-class guest artists, Michael Maniaci, Rebecca Turner, and Stephen Reid.

The PERFORMANCES are local (Village Green in Indian Head, Maryland) and economical ($5 tickets for Monday-Thursday evening programs; $8-$10 for Friday-Sunday evening programs).

The PARTICIPANTS include youth, adults, faculty, students, technicians, paid staff, and volunteers.

The PROMISE is one of world-class professional entertainment for our community while promoting, encouraging, and training emerging young artists!
The young artists who will be attending and performing in Stageworks Festival possess the raw talent and strong desire necessary to succeed as the musicians and performers of tomorrow. Providing these young adults with the training and opportunities that will be afforded them this summer is the dream of Artistic Director and Waldorf resident, Lisa Kay Morton. Her goal is to make Stageworks Festival an annual event in Indian Head, Maryland: top-notch training and performance opportunities for young artists, while simultaneously giving the local community 17 consecutive evenings of world-class, but low-cost musical entertainment!

While the participants converge upon Charles County on June 6, 2008, the concerts won’t begin until June 13th, but run each evening thereafter through June 29th.

Details about Stageworks Festival can be found at www.stageworksfestival.org

Inspirational Quote:

You see things; and you say, ‘Why?’ But I dream things that never were; and I say, “Why not?”–George Bernard Shaw

25 April, 2008

Overheating labtop mini-hack

Filed under: CMU news, open source, politics-tech — feelingelephants @ 11:10 am

ok, so I know it’s because Amelia (my Macbook Pro)’s fan is not so effective right now. And I will take her to an Apple Store when I get home to CA. However, until then, I didn’t like how her screen froze and her fan whirred and she got hotter and hotter. I was scared for my Amelia. So I thought. And thought. And it was 6am and I needed to finished my course registration so I stopped thinking, and I got my medical icepack out of the freezer, put it on my bed, put a tarry cloth on top of it and put Amelia–battery squarely on the icepack–on top.

At that point she was nearly uncomfortable to touch she was so hot, but as I was adding and moving classes I could feel her body cooling dramatically. And now she is good!

Inspirational Quote:

“The truth is that many people set rules to keep from making decisions.” - Mike Krzyzewski

18 April, 2008

Lazarus Long on Specialization

Filed under: CMU news, politics-tech — feelingelephants @ 3:53 pm

This post is based on my Inspirational Quote from my critique of the MPAA:

a human being should be able to
change a diaper, (* peninsula school, red cross baby sitters course)
plan an invasion, (* last november, thanksgiving trip to washington dc)
butcher a hog, (! yet)
conn a ship, (* peninsula school, our cabin at loon lake with an 18 foot lazer)
design a building, (! yet)
write a sonnet, (* harker 10th grade, english class. I also wrote a poem based on “the passionate shepard” to his love” called the “pomeranian to his love”)
balance accounts, (* carnegie mellon university, I use quicken to manage my spending and income)
build a wall, (* peninsula school, I built forts and dams)
set a bone, (* peninsula school, red cross training for disasters)
comfort the dying, (! yet for humans, several birds and mice)
take orders, (* pacific martial arts, finally I learned to do this in my karate classes)
give orders, (*harker wrestling team,
cooperate, (* peninsula school, the whole time we were taught to respect each other and work in teams)
act alone, (* peninsula school, we were also taught to act individually and for causes we thought were right)
solve equations, (* harker school, AP Calc and such)
analyze new problems, (* peninsula school, we fundraised for camping trips and dealt with problems as they came up)
pitch manure, (* peninsula school, dog manure as part of my chores)
program a computer, (*! harker school, I can program on a computer however I think mr heinlein was talking about something more elementary like building an os which I need more work on my computer skills to do)
cook a tasty meal, (* harker wrestling team, when you’re losing weight you need to cook your own good food to control the contents)
fight efficiently, (* pacific martial arts && harker wrestling, we know about self-defense)
die gallantly. (! yet, I am pretty sure I cannot practice this)

Specialization is for insects.

– Robert A. Heinlein

My ability to fill out this list has a lot to do with my amazing middle school, Peninsula School in Menlo Park. Being a generalist is part of being a Humanities Major, but it is also part of how Peninsula taught me to live happily. I enjoy almost all of the skills I have gained (pitching manure isn’t much fun) and I look forward to learning how to do all of them (except the last one :-D).

Inspirational Quote:

Passionate Pomeranian to his love

Come live with me, and be my bitch,
Away from me you’ll never switch
Through the dog days and the rain
You will never cause me pain

Together we will lounge sheepskin mats
And I’ll spend the hours chasing cats
You’ll sit under the shade of parisol
While gazing upon me, your manly furball

I’ll give you collars of roses and love
Spikes and leather, soft as gloves
And combs of ivory, to twirl your hair
Which will soon adorn my manly lair

I will make you a sleeping pad
With embroidery, never plaid
Feed you food fit for a poodle!
Not a Man’s left over noodles

I’ll feed you fresh veal,
Which will never congeel
Like that stuff your master gives you
And in this way you I’ll woo

Your leash will be a silken rope
Shiny so you’ll not mope
With a steel core, so it’ll not fray,
You’ll be mine me ‘till your death day

We will frolic through the park
And at the pesky squirrels we’ll bark
Though your fleas will make me twitch
Come live with me, and be my bitch

By Jessica Dickinson Goodman for Mr Hufnagl’s class, Harker, 2005

3 April, 2008

25 Things to Bring to College

Filed under: CMU news — feelingelephants @ 11:41 pm

Because it’s no fun showing up without these things. Also because I keep on seeing visiting Seniors in High School on campus (some from Harker!) I figured this would be topical. I asked 5 friends to give me 5 things they forgot to bring to campus/were really important to have on campus. In no particular order, here are their ideas:

  1. Pictures of family and friend
  2. Personal hygene supplies
  3. Tupperware
  4. Batteries
  5. Vitamins
  6. Extension chord/squid
  7. Pushpins
  8. Extra show laces
  9. Baster
  10. Flashlight
  11. Tripod
  12. Vacuum
  13. First Aid Kit
  14. Underarmor (it’s a brand of long underwear, except all hip and stuff)
  15. Earmuffs
  16. Clothes for seasons that you will be in (ie, Floridians and Californians should know winter involves more than light rain)
  17. Book shelves
  18. Stapler
  19. Pencil sharpener
  20. Nail clipper/nail file
  21. Scissors
  22. Formal Wear–Suit, Tie, Belt for guys (we needed it for Convocation at CMU)
  23. Hand soap
  24. Small beanbag chair
  25. Extra pillow
  26. Extra credit: for CMU, a bike might be a good idea

Inspirational Quote:

“The number of girls entering the computing and high tech arena is continuing to drop, with women comprising only about 28% of the technology workforce today. Furthermore, the number of girls dropping out from computing/technology, in college, is significant.” MAGIC (More Girls Active In Computing)

28 March, 2008

What’s wrong with Abstinence Only/Plus/Until Marriage education (Or, the victims of the Bush Administration’s Sex Ed Policy)

Filed under: CMU news, Presidential Campaign, news, politics-human rights — feelingelephants @ 2:04 pm

This post was inspired by an online petition on comprehensive sexual education I was asked to sign by Planned Parenthood of Western PA on behalf of some Pittsburgh Parents who are fighting the Abstinence Only/Plus/Until Marriage curriculum in their children’s schools. It bothers me that there is many times a lack of accurate information given to people my age in public schools. Censorship in all its slippery-slope forms bothers me. In this case information is censored because of the misconception that without information on how to safely have sex, adults (for that is what most teens become) will simply not have sex.

  • It is my understanding that Abstinence only/plus/until marriage textbooks tell students the right thing to do before having sex is to get married.
    • That the right thing to do, if you can’t get married now, or never want to get married, is to never have sex.
    • Since when was it the job of a Sex-Ed textbook to tell students what the right thing to do is?

Here are some other ways to reduce teen pregnancies and unintended pregnancies in general:

  • Telling the truth about condoms, the pill, how a woman gets pregnant, how STIs can be contracted, etc (see below for statistics on the effect of comprehensive sex ed for teens).
  • Not hiding safer ways of having sex.

And never, never, never through guilt.

The textbook used by the Pittsburgh Public Schools (Totally Awesome Health) tells teens:

“being sexually active can affect [your] mental health. Stress can result from guilt that is associated with being sexually active,”

And it never defines what “sexually active means”.

Now there are a lot of issues mixed into the “abstinence only/plus/until marriage” message:

  • There is sexism, because the ability to choose when, if ever, to become pregnant is one of the biggest empowering changes of the past century for women. Access to accurate sexual education, family planning, contraception, and abortion allow women and men to treat each other as partners, equals. To my eyes, we do not yet live in a society where men and women are equally effected by unintended pregnancies. I hope they are someday–that would be another great way to lower the number of teen pregnancies.
  • And homophobia is mixed into this: only heterosexual couples are even mentioned it leaves millions of teens ignored; their parents defined as other; their orientations termed abnormal.
  • And a weird bias towards anglo-saxon nuclear families is mixed into this, because there is no room for single parent families; no room for being raise in a non-traditional family; no room for children raised by grandparents, aunts and uncles, friend parents. No room for anyone other than couples whose bedroom and family lives are pre-approved by the textbook writers.

Americans have had a president who pushes hard for abstinence only/plus/until marriage for 8 years. And what’s our track record? Here’s some quotes on the effect of the abstinence only/plus/until marriage policy pushed by the Bush Administration:

  • A study from the University of Washington showing: “Students who receive comprehensive sex education are half as likely to become teen parents as those who get none or abstinence-only sex education,” (University of Washington)
  • A study from the “Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) showing that one in four teen girls has a sexually transmitted infection (STI),” (Editorials Across the Country Echo Planned Parenthood’s Call for Comprehensive Sex Ed)
  • “[I]n Pennsylvania the rate of unintended pregnancies has increased for teens for the first time in more than a decade” (Planned Parenthood email on this petition)
  • “[T]eens who had comprehensive education, which typically discusses condoms and birth-control methods as well as abstinence, were no more likely to engage in intercourse than peers who were taught just to say no to sex before marriage,” (University of Washington)

There have been casualties of the pro-abstinence anti-education group. Every teen mother and teen father, every parent who suddenly find themselves a grandparent, every child who grows up with parents who know why their lives were limited are victims of Abstinence Only/Plus/Until Marriage miseducation. They suffer the of censorship in the classroom.

PS: Here is my followup post with a good Sex Ed resource called Scarleteen.

Inspirational Quote:

  • Q: “What about grants for sex education in the United States? Should they include instructions about using contraceptives? Or should it be Bush’s policy, which is just abstinence?”
  • McCain: (Long pause) “Ahhh. I think I support the president’s policy.”
  • Q: “So no contraception, no counseling on contraception. Just abstinence. Do you think contraceptives help stop the spread of HIV?”
  • McCain: (Long pause) “You’ve stumped me.”

(Reporter and John McCain talking about Sex Ed in the US)

17 March, 2008

Brown v Pittsburgh (my student legal brief)

Filed under: CMU news, politics-human rights — feelingelephants @ 12:35 am

Hey all. So I read the 69 page Opinion, and I figured the best way to summarize it was to practice my legal briefing skills! Here it is. The summary: Ms Brown has no effective challenge of the statute as it is nearly identical to the one the Supreme Court upheld in Hill v Colorado. Have fun!

1. Title and Citation

IN THE UNITED STATES DISTRICT COURT
FOR THE WESTERN DISTRICT OF PENNSYLVANIA
MARY KATHRYN BROWN, Plaintiff, v. CITY OF PITTSBURGH, et al., Defendants. )
Civil Action No. 06-393 Judge Nora Barry Fischer

2. Facts of the Case

Ms Brown sought a preliminary injunction against enforcement of the Bubble Zone Ordinance which places a place restriction on protesting outside of health care facilities.

In December 2005 the Pittsburgh city counsel passed the Bubble Zone Ordinance which requires a protester within a 100 foot radius of a clinic or hospital to ask permission before approaching a passerby with his or her message. Ms Brown, a protester, argues that this Ordinance violates her First Amendment rights to Free Speech and Free Exercise and that it therefore facially unconstitutional. The relevant law is here:

“Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof; or abridging the freedom of speech, ” (Amendment I, US Constitution)

§ 623.03 EIGHT-FOOT PERSONAL BUBBLE ZONE
No person shall knowingly approach another person within eight feet (8′) of such person, unless such other person consents, for the purpose of passing a leaflet or handbill to, displaying a sign to, or engaging in oral protest, education or counseling with such other person in the public way or sidewalk area within a radius of one hundred feet (100′) from any entrance door to a hospital and/or medical office/clinic.

§ 623.04 FIFTEEN-FOOT BUFFER ZONE
No person or persons shall knowingly congregate, patrol, picket or demonstrate in a zone extending fifteen feet (15′) from any entrance to the hospital and or health care facility. This section shall not apply to police and public safety officers, fire and rescue personnel, or other emergency workers in the course of their official business, or to authorized security personnel employees or agents of the hospital, medical office or clinic engaged in assisting patients and other persons to enter or exit the hospital, medical office, or clinic.

§ 623.05 Penalty Section
Any person, firm, or corporation who pleads guilty or nolo contendere, or is convicted of violating of [sic] this section shall be guilty of a summary offense and punished by a fine of at least fifty dollars ($50.00) for the first offense; a fine of at least one hundred fifty dollars ($150.00) for a second offense within five (5) years; and a fine of three hundred dollars ($300.00) for a third offense within five (5) years.

For fourth and subsequent offenses within five (5) years the fine shall not be less than three hundred dollars ($300.00) and/or imprisonment for not less than three (3) days but not more than thirty (30) days. No part of the minimum fine may be suspended or discharged, except upon proof and a finding of indigence by the court. Indigent defendants may pay fines imposed under this section by participation in a court designated community service program, crediting the commensurate dollar amount of each hour of community service toward payment of the minimum fine owed.

§ 623.01 Intent of Council
The City Council recognizes that access to Health Care Facilities for the purpose of obtaining medical counseling and treatment is important for residents and visitors to the City. The exercise of a person’s right to protest or counsel against certain medical procedures is a First Amendment activity that must be balanced against another person’s right to obtain medical counseling and treatment in an unobstructed manner; and The City of Pittsburgh Bureau of Police has been consistently called upon in at least two locations within the City to mediate disputes between those seeking medical counseling and treatment and those who would counsel against their actions so as to (i) avoid violent confrontations which would lead to criminal charges and (ii) enforce existing City Ordinances which regulate the use of public sidewalks and other conduct; such services require a dedicated and indefinite appropriation of policing services, which is being provided to the neglect of the law enforcement needs of the Zones in which these facilities exist. 8

The City seeks a more efficient and wide deployment of its services which will help reduce the risk of violence and provide unobstructed access to Health Care Facilities by setting clear guidelines for activity in the immediate vicinity of the entrances to Health Care Facilities. The Council finds that the limited buffer and bubble zones outside the Health Care Facilities established by this Ordinance will ensure that patients have unimpeded access to medical services while ensuring that the First Amendment rights of demonstrators to communicate their message to their intended audience is not impaired.

The RFPA provides that “an agency shall not substantially burden a person’s free exercise of religion, including any burden which results from a rule of general applicability, unless the agency proves, by a preponderance of the evidence that the burden is (1) [i]n furtherance of a compelling interest of the agency, and is (2) [t]he least restrictive means of furthering the compelling interest.” Combs v. Homer Ctr. Sch. Dist., Civil Action No. 04-1599, 2005 U.S. Dist. LEXIS 32007, at *30 (W.D. Pa. Dec. 8, 2005) (quoting 71 PA. CONS. STAT. § 2404) (2007).

A district court may grant the “extraordinary remedy” of a preliminary injunction upon consideration of the following four factors:
(1) whether the movant has shown a reasonable probability of success on the merits;
(2) whether the movant will be irreparably injured by denial of the relief;
(3) whether granting the preliminary relief will result in even greater harm to the nonmoving party; and
(4) whether granting the preliminary relief will be in the public interest.

The following factors must be present before a prior decision has stare decisis effect:
(1) The decision must constitute a holding of the majority of the court and if a particular result is adopted by a clear majority of the court, it has absolute precedential effect in substantially identical legal and factual circumstances.
(2) The decision must involve an issue of law.
(3) Similar factual situations must be involved.
(4) An issue was actually determined by the decision.
(5) The decision must be from the same court or from a court which the court applying stare decisis owes obedience.

Summary of complaint
Ms Brown contends that her right to Free Speech and Free Exercise are restricted by an Ordinance which she argues is facially unconstitutional at three different clinics in the City of Pittsburgh (for a statute to be facially unconstitutional, it must conform to the above criteria). Ms Brown says the Ordinance is unconstitutionally vague, overbroad and constitutes prior restraint of her speech. She asks for a preliminary injunction enjoining the enforcement of the Ordinance.

She argues that she is unable to exercise her right to Free Speech because the ordinance places an undue burden on her activities: ie, by requiring her to ask permission to communicate within 8 feet of a person the Ordinance makes it extremely difficult for her to get her counseling across in the time and space relevant to the clinic (this Ordinance is for all intents and purposes identical to the Ordinance in Hill which was upheld by the Supreme Court as facially constitutional and which this court finds guides this case by state decisis).

Ms Brown also says that she is unable to exercise her religion freely for the reasons given above.

She contends that she does not understand how to obtain consent, whether she may force people to walk by her while she stands still and hands our pamphlets, and whether the statute applies only to her and her cause or to other causes which might warrant protesting in the 100 foot zone (she was a ER Nurse for many years; it is difficult to believe she does not understand consent and informed consent).

She argues that the statute is overbroad in that it restricts both violent and non-violent protest outside the clinics when it was violent protest which she believes the statute was created to protect against (this is not the case: the Ordinance was also created to facilitate the right “to be let alone” which it can be assumed includes the right to have someone backup when they are asked to do so).

She argues that because she must ask passersby for permission to speak to them within 8 feet, she is under prior restraint (a doctrine which applies only to government entities).

3. Issues

Does a government entity have a compelling interest in protecting patients of abortion clinics and all other health care facilities from violence and intimidation?
Do Bubble Zone laws violate protesters’ First Amendment rights?
Are restrictions which protesters find make it more difficult to spread their messages/for them to practice their religion facially unconstitutional?
How can the First Amendment right to speech and the right “to be let alone” balanced?
Is being forced to walk in the street, bump into trees and trashcans and backup when asked to sufficiently burdensome that they leave the Bubble Zone Ordinance facially unconsitutional?

4. Decisions

Plaintiff’s Motion for Preliminary Injunction [DE 22] is DENIED.

5. Reasoning

The case is controlled by Hill v. Colorado in which the Supreme Court found a nearly identical statute to be facially constitutional. In addition, Ms Brown failed to show on any point that her issue necessitated a preliminary injunction as it 1) failed to show probability of success on the merits as she has been able to continue protesting, 2) as she has continued protesting she is not irreparably injured by the Ordinance and she waited 6 months to file a for an Injunction anyway, 3) allowing only Ms Brown to continue protesting would cause all of the traffic flow and imitation of access problems that the Ordinacne was designed to help, 4) protecting a citizen’s constitutional rights in always in the public interest; however Ms Brown did not show her Constitutional rights were being violated and the public interest in allowing all people access to health care is protected by this Ordinance.

Therefore, Ms Brown’s request for a preliminary injunction was denied.

6. Separate Opinions

None

7. Analysis

This decision means that it will continue to be only massively unpleasant to access abortion services in the Pittsburgh area rather than impossible. It is possible Ms Brown will continue trying for a permanent injunction.

Inspirational Quote:

There is a tragic flaw in our precious Constitution, and I don’t know what can be done to fix it. This is it: Only nut cases want to be president. - Kurt Vonnegut

15 March, 2008

Corrections to Japanese words!

Filed under: CMU news, Karate, Shito-Ryu — feelingelephants @ 9:49 pm

Hey all,

My Shihan kindly offered these corrections to my post on having trouble translating Japanese into English–it is so cool to have someone to look out for me (and correct my spelling :-D)

“Bunkai: Analysis of the movements of the kata.

“Oyo: the application of the movements from the kata, as one might actually use them in combat. Hence, the movements of the Oyo, may deviate from a strict adherence to the sequence, angle and even order of the movements in the kata.

“Zanchin is actually spelled, ZanSHIN. Zanshin is awareness before, during and after the technique. As a practical definition, Zanshin is being in the position, mentally and physically to respond to an attack, as necessary.

“Kime: Decisiveness. The various physical and mental conditions necessary to make one’s technique decisive.

“JEON is misspelled. It’s JION.

“Skidome should be Tsuki dome. It’s blocking immediately after punching with the punching hand”

FYI!

Inspirational Quote:

Physical violence is prohibited. We don’t support illegal drug use. Minors should be accompanied by their parent(s) or guardian(s). Please refrain from doing anything that might jeopardize the conference or attendees such as lighting your hair on fire or throwing lit road flares in elevators. DEFCON Goons are there to answer your questions and keep everything moving. Hotel security is there to watch over their property. Each has a different mission, and it is wise to not anger the hotel people. Please be aware that if you engage in illegal activities there is a large contingency of feds that attend DEFCON. Talking about how you are going to bomb the RNC convention in front of an FBI agent is a Career Limiting Move! (What are the rules of DEFCON?)

3 March, 2008

A day in the snow

Filed under: CMU news — feelingelephants @ 10:54 am

Ok, so only people from California take pictures of snow. But I’m from California, so it’s ok! Check out my slideshow of my day walking through the snow.

Inspirational Quote:

I’m as pure as the driven slush. - Tallulah Bankhead

2 March, 2008

Google Books and my Intellectual Property

Filed under: CMU news — feelingelephants @ 1:54 pm

Hmmm, I’m not sure how I feel about this. Doing a search to see how I am presented to the world through Google (and finding that Facebook is my first hit–after all my hard work on this blog, the social networking giant eats p my standings in a single gulp) I found that my essay for She’s Such a Geek is available for free though Google Books. Now, I have already fallen guiltily in love with Google Books. It was because of them I could cite the diary of a 12 year old during the civil war. But it makes me feel a little odd to see someone I worked so hard on, a project I think deserves to make money put up for free with no one asking me for permission. It’s where ego/financial self-preservation and my love to free information come into conflict. Not speaking on the legal matters associated with Google Books, what are the moral ones? It feels like something for nothing, though I’m sure there’s an undergrad with ink-stained hands who would disagree that scanning is “nothing”. But nothing for me. It feels a little odd.

By the way, since I haven’t decided whether I support this or not, I’ll leave you to find the book on your own. I know for sure I am much more supportive of people buying the book than borrowing it from the Google scanned library.

Inspirational Quote:

It is a very sad thing that nowadays there is so little useless information. - Oscar Wilde

1 March, 2008

Contraception perception

Filed under: CMU news, Escorting, politics-human rights — feelingelephants @ 6:27 pm

Today I did a leadership activity where with a certain amount of money I proposed that we subsidize CMU’s prescription birth control methods because of the huge price increase created by President Bush’s Deficit Reduction Act. This Act changed the formula which had previously encouraged drug makers to offer school discounts to discourage them. I spent this morning Escorting and plan to attend Planned Parenthood of Western Pennsylvania’s Rally for Affordable Contraception next week because I think unintended pregnancies are bad. And it was that simple for me. I don’t really think it’s my business to pass judgment on the morality of medical treatments, and as women (and their families) with devastating cramps know, the pill can be a life-saver for the non-sexually active.

But my group was offended. Not uninterested, not confused about the legal issue, offended that I wanted to subsidize contraception. Now as I Escorted this morning I got to listen to a man with yelling “Contraception causes Cancer! Abortion causes Cancer!” which I pretty much filed away in my head under the same category as things I hear listening to Rush Limbaugh or Martha Stewart. But standing with a group of Freshmen, I suddenly hear one woman say “I’m alienated by that idea”, a man say “I don’t like that idea because I’m a guy” and the entire group come to the general consensus that it was an offensive and unreasonable way to spend our money, all in about 30 seconds.

I have rarely found myself so poor a gage of an issue’s popularity. I consider myself relatively savvy about how people will deal with my issues and I was blindsided. As we decided on a much mellower and milder plan, I thought:

I thought most religions gave up fighting contraception in the 70s,” and (uncharitably)

“Do they think abortions are a better option or should all women start getting pregnant at 18 and not stop until they’re 40″, and

How is responsibility offensive?

Because that’s how I have always seen contraception. The intension to start a family and the intension to enter into a sexual relationship are differentiated in my mind. Now, having heterosexual sex requires (or should require) both parties to understand the possible implications of what they are doing and to plan for unintended pregnancies. But in my mind, contraception is only not used when a woman wants to get pregnant or is raped. There are other responsible situations where a woman and her companion might choose to go without contraception, but they are few and far between.

So why did my peers disagree so thoroughly?

Some later seemed to agree with me but it was too late and my idea had been taken out and crushed. I think I have just never known someone my age who didn’t understand the vital place contraception has in our society.

It took me a while to calm down, and then I started asking questions. Turns out I couldn’t find anyone who wold tell me they personally would deny women contraception. I’ll keep asking around, but I hope it was just a case of students being over-sensitive for hypothetical (non-existent) others.

I just don’t know.

Inspirational Quote:

Liberty without learning is always in peril; learning without liberty is always in vain.
- John F. Kennedy

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